Curriculum · Conversation
Service · 25–30 minutes
Which season are you in — and what is louder?
This is the curriculum for the booked talk. You can read it before you send three windows. Antonela runs it as written. It is not a diagnosis, not therapy, not a sales hour dressed as intimacy.
Before the call
- If you can: Room 1 written, or two rooms on the map. If you cannot, come anyway.
- One sentence: nights or years. Empty house or two countries, if that is true.
- If something in the body is new, severe, or frightening — a GP first. We will not override that.
The three movements
0–8 minutes · Name
What is louder: the nights or the years? Which season, if you had to pick one. Antonela will not force a path. Capacity-first is always legal.
8–22 minutes · One room
We walk one loud room only. Not six. Stay curious; do not dump advice. Ask, in this order, and wait:
- What is the real challenge here — for you, not for the house?
- And what else?
- What would a 90-day move look like if it had to fit a Tuesday?
- If Tuesday cannot hold it, what is the smaller sentence?
If Tuesday cannot hold it, we name that and stop expanding. Capacity-first is the win.
22–30 minutes · Next door
One next step, said plainly:
- Nights louder → Method reading, then masterclass if she wants paid depth.
- Years louder → founding map waitlist + Week 0 of the spine.
- Wants a person for 12 weeks → 1:1 syllabus only if a seat exists (€1,950, max four). Not booked in this hour by default.
- Employer talking → Midlife @ Work. We do not sell her a map for the board.
What we will not do
Advise on HRT. Diagnose. Run couples therapy. Design your pension. Promise that 30 minutes changes the decade. Extend past time because the story is unfinished — we book another window if needed.
After
You leave with: the season named, one move, one door. Antonela sends nothing extra unless you are on the letters list. Send three windows.